mind over matter

it seems like things have been weighing heavily on all of us lately. pisces season is here, and we might be feeling emotions with more intensity than usual. it’s time to address the skeletons in the closet, and clear the cobwebs out. spring is coming toward us fast, and it might be time for some spring cleaning of the mind & soul (and maybe your physical space too). declutter! let go of everything that is taking up space and collecting dust in your life. this reading’s channeled song was mind over matter by young the giant - and you are being told to do just that. act with your mind over the matters that are currently troubling you or stressing you out. things are going to work out and fall into place just like they’re supposed to. stop thinking about it. let it go, the universe is already working on it. just keep your head on straight and keep walking toward the finish line. everything will work out.

collective message:

I’ve been called to do some collective readings for a while now, but I put it off. spirit is telling you to take a break. take a step back, go outside and get some fresh air and prioritize leisure. pour back into your heart at this time. get back to the things that nurture your inner child and give you joy. let go of the burdens and stressors you’ve been holding on to that are holding you back or weighing you down. it’s time. you’ve been generous without reciprocity for too long. sever those ties. allow yourself to be open to new love, new beginnings, and new experiences. don’t let a broken wing keep you from flying again. tend to your wounds and know you will live to love another day. romance in all forms is all around you. discover your love for life. you need to let go of convention. the way you make your living won’t be conventional. you’re meant for something outside of a traditional 9-5. start thinking about your calling and how you can finetune your skills to find success within your passions. however, that also means no frivolous spending for now.

channeled song: mind over matter (reprise) - young the giant

I want to talk about you

I renamed 'I want to talk about you' about four times before landing on this one. I still don't know if I'm sold on it, but, it feels kind of fitting. and, the truth is, I do want to talk about you. good and bad. I want to talk about you. I pray that we all have people in our lives that we can't stop yapping about. love is a fire kept alive by the words you speak when they aren't around to speak or listen. love whispers. it can be loud, but the greatest love, to me, comes quietly in ways you don't see, but always feel. you feel covers pulled up over your shoulder because you fell asleep on the sofa (again). you feel love when you realize you misplaced your keys, only to find them placed neatly by the door, just for you. the absence of love is cold - because a blanket never makes its way to your shoulder unless you put it there. the absence of love is messy - because you still can't find your damn keys. 'I want to talk about you' is for days when you smoke just a liiiittle too much and want to walk through the park. maybe you want to grieve, maybe want to reminisce, or maybe you just want to feed some fuckin' birds. just don't let people make themselves feel welcome & comfortable in your complacency. you do yourself no favors when you stunt your growth for the sake of others' wellbeing without putting yourself first. an empty cup can't (re)fill others.

collective message:

ok... I was NOT going to do another reading until maybe later in the week, but I kept channeling Your Needs, My Needs by Noah Kahan so it got to the point where I needed to pull some cards on it. immediately we start with the oracle card that says "notice predictable rhythms". following up with the last collective reading, this is a message of letting go. there may be a lot of feelings attached to this: guilt, sadness, feeling like you're abandoning someone or feeling obligated to care for them. you might even feel like you're mourning a loss. in some ways, you are. you're allowed to grieve whatever you're struggling to walk away from in whatever time that you need. this connection you're holding on to is costing you too much of your self-respect and esteem. you don't have to give in to this anymore. don't give up your heart and your hope for the brief glimmers of humanity that you see in this person. realize that the part you play enables your predictable patterns, but you are capable of breaking them. you could really love and care about this connection, but you might also feel like you're trapped or helpless, or like your situation is hopeless. as much as it hurts, it takes two to tango, so remember that you are also playing a part in keeping yourself stagnant and in a cycle that is making you unhappy. remember that you have the power to change your situation. you do not need to embrace complacency to make the people around you feel more comfortable or at home. this message has two channeled songs because another one popped up as I was writing this:

Your Needs, My Needs - Noah Kahan

Unknown/Nth - Hozier

heavyyyy Capricorn, Gemini, or Scorpio energy (all placements but getting energy especially for sun + venus placements) but can apply to any sign!!

*please note that this is a collective reading and may/may not apply to your situation. if you would like to know more, or want to ask a specific question, you can purchase a reading from me here, or use the ‘contact me’ page here.

creature comforts

hey, it’s been a while. it’s good to see you. a lot has changed, but I’m happy you’re here. I made this playlist a while ago. I listened to it so much I’m tired of a couple of the songs on it, but I wanted to share it with you. I feel like a lot of you might need it right now. I made creature comforts when I was going through some pretty complicated feelings in my own life and needed to sit in my feelings for a while. now, more or less, I’m happy to say that they’re just good tunes to me. I appreciate what they were there for. I hope they can do the same for you. I named this playlist creature comforts because it implies complacency. it implies stagnancy. the Gremlins comparison was an afterthought. maybe we find comfort in people or things that aren’t good for us. remember that sometimes going back means going backward. maybe it’s time to stop going back to that ex. maybe the next time that situationship texts you at 2:00 a.m., you’ll leave them on read. or, even better, maybe you’ll block them. do not feed that thing after midnight. go to bed.

collective channeled oracle message:

you are being urged to stop feeding your gremlin. you might be in a relationship or situation(ship) that is not working in your favor all of the time. this person might be fun, sexy, outgoing, and makes you feel good. (you know what I’m talking about. let’s keep it PG). however, there could also be things about this person that you might not like, or might even consider red flags. maybe they leave you on read a lot. maybe they’re impossible to make plans with. it might feel like they’re only interested in one thing. it’s time for you to prioritize yourself. set boundaries and stick to them. no going back.